Everything is Energy, and deep down, you understand this. If everything is energy, then as a manifestation of the Divine, you vibrate at a specific frequency. Your spiritual signature is encoded within you.
Now let me ask you: Do you believe you have found your frequency to create your life? Or is your frequency clouded by the residue of past stories? When you truly align with your frequency -your soul vibration, often referred to as the ” I AM ” presence- and let go of the negativity, judgment, anger, grudges, pain, grief, trauma, your life begins to shift. You open up to the truth of who you are, aligning with all the good meant for you, and life becomes a journey filled with more flow and ease. This is how life is supposed to feel, not as one of suffering and pain or reliving past wounds through trauma.
Recently,I was guided by Source onto a path of deeper healing, specifically addressing a wound tied to men. Throughout most of my relationships, including the current one, this issue has been recurring. I had attracted men who weren’t interested in committing. I initially thought it was their problem, but we all know that what happens on the outside is a mirror of what’s occurring within
For the life of me, I couldn’t figure out what was happening, and that’s the dilemma. We cannot use the mind to unpack the subconscious; we need other tools for that, like hypnosis and past life regression.
My healing happened unexpectedly when I interviewed a clinical hypnotist named Liz Tellez for the online Vibrant Living Summit in September. During the interview, Liz felt compelled to conduct a clearing session with me, so we paused the recording to proceed with it. After the first session, I felt much clearer, especially since I had been going through some turmoil with my partner. However, a second session was necessary. The second session proved to be a game-changer. Why? Because it helped me uncover the root cause of my issue regarding men’s unwillingness to commit.
Through a past life regression session, I went back to my time in the womb, where I confronted fear and past pain. I was stuck in the womb and had to be pulled out with pliers—not an ideal way to enter the world! Those fears ran deep, but they weren’t the root cause. I was guided further back to a past life experience in a concentration camp, where I traded sex for information from the SS guards. During that time, I harbored intense feelings of hatred towards men and ultimately took my own life due to the pain of losing my children. This deep-seated belief of life being terrible, of feeling abandoned, and distrusting men is something I carried into this life, manifesting in my relationships. The core belief that formed was: “I do not WANT to commit to life.” When I realized this, tears streamed down my cheeks as I felt the weight of this limiting belief. I now understand that I can choose differently in this life and commit to it. This realization felt monumental!
The magnitude of this shift was incredible. The impact deepened when my therapist asked me to view all my past relationships from this new perspective of committing to life. To my surprise, those past relationships felt wiped clean. It made sense because if I am fully committing to life, I am creating my life from a higher vibration rather than through my old feelings of unworthiness and disempowerment. I am now learning to create my life from this deeper truth. Yes, the men weren’t committing, but that was because I wasn’t fully committing myself. This powerful session has shifted my energy profoundly, and I am now meeting my present partner from a deeper place of love, without judgment, without expectation. We are learning to connect from a place of unconditional love now. Previously, I approached the relationship from a place of will and force, which stifled him. I wanted the relationship to fit a certain mold and was rigid about it. I am learning that true love involves accepting someone as they are rather than projecting an image onto them.
What I needed to do was forgive a previous lie and let go, but I was unable to do that until after the session. However, a healthy relationship can only exist if you forgive and allow love in. Love does not judge; love does not condemn. Love stands up for truth, but it is never meant to coerce.
I feel an opening within me—a sense of trust, unconditional love, and reduced dependency. I am honoring my truth and believe that love is the way. I realize that I am supported and loved by myself. It is incredibly liberating to be in such a space of truth. I now recognize my worth and feel no need to please, chase, or engage in anything that doesn’t feel right.
So if you are struggling with repetitive patterns that undermine you, heed this call and ask for this to be healed. It is Time you embody your truth. Be kind and gentle with yourself and honor your truth always!